date of birth: 19 august 1863
died : 4 july 1943 books written: famous books ,Behshti Zewar ,Biyaan al Quran, Hayat Muslimeen, Muhalimuddin, Kaleed Masnoi, Jamal al Quran, Jaz ul Aamal, Imdadul Ahkaam, Malfoozat, Hakimul Amat,
26 important instructions of Hazrat Molana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (may Allah have mercy on him) regarding the upbringing of childrens about 26 good habits.
1.Women have a habit of frightening their children
with gosts and other scary things. This is very wrong. It weakens the
child's heart.
2. The mother should keep frightening the child from the father.
3.If it is a boy, do not grow its hair, and if you are a girl, do not wear jewelry until you are able to sit behind a veil. On the one hand it is life threatening and on the other hand, to make a good habit it is not good thing to have a passion for jewelry in one’s heart since childhood.
4.Bring food ,clothes money and such things to the poor from the hands of children. In the same way , distribute many things if it would be food siblings or drink other children so that your children have a habit of generosity so that becomes a good habit.
5.Do the evil of the one who eats too much in front of the children, but by name of the one who eats so much that's is those who eat more known as Abyssinian.
6.If he is a boy. Create in his heart the desire for white clothes and make him hate colorful clothes are worn by girls. You are a man, god willing. keep repeating such things.
7.If she is a girl. Do not make her a habit of wearing too much new clothes it becomes a good habit.
8.Do not meet all the demands of children. This makes the baby's mood worse.
9)stop shouting, especially it is a girl. Otherwise, it will become a habit when it grows up.
10.Protect children who have bad habits or run away from reading and writing or learning who are accustomed to eating and dressing in a difficult way from sitting and playing with them.
11.Keep hating these things, be angry, lie, be jealous or jealous when you see someone, steal, gossip, talk a lot of useless things. Laughing out loud or laughing too much cheating, not thinking of good or bad. And when any of these things happen, stop them directly and warn again and again.
12. If something breaks or kills, punish the child appropriately so that does not to do it habit to pray when he were abled to go to school, recite the holy Quran first.
13. Don’t go to bed too early and get in the habit if getting up early tell children’s stories about good people.
14. to make a good habit Don’t let them see books that contain stories of lovers or nonsense stories which involved them in bad habits.
15. After coming from school let the child play for some time for entertainment so that his nature does not become dull, but there should be a game in which there is no sin and there is no fear of injury.
16.Don’t give money to buy fireworks or baja or junk and don’t get in the habit of playing games(todays pointless mobiles are also smartphones, video games, that harmful to health and just a waste of time money, hanging out with such friends and acquaintances in your street neighborhood, schools, colleges, or universities) including money and permission to do so.
17.Be sure to teach your children a skill that will enable them to support themselves and their children by earning four rupees time of need and trouble.
18.Teach girls to read and write at least as much as they can to count the necessary letters for house.
19.Get children in the habit of doing their own thing, don’t be crippled and lazy. Make your own bed somewhere at night and get up in the morning and fold it yourself carefully.
20.Instruct the girls to learn the tasks of cooking, drying, breasts dying clothes very diligently its good habit.
21.When a good thing is revealed to a child ,you must commend him, love him, and give him some reward so that his heart may grow. people know him badly. And if the child repeats the wrong acts again punish the child and warn them appropriately.
22.Do not let your child do anything secretly, be it sports or food or any occupation.
23.Encourage children to walk so that they do not walk too fast and do not look up here and there like unknowably while walking.
24. Assign him a duty of hard work which will keep him healthy and courageous.
25.Make it a habit to be humble, with language gait and behavior don’t brag.
26.Give the child some money but make it a habitual a good habit not to buy anything without any permission of you then your child becomes a good habit.
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